Coming from a military background is a huge source of pride for Armed Forces young people, and for many, forms a key part of their identity. However, they often feel the forces are “not as appreciated here” in Scotland and “there’s a lack of respect, lack of understanding”. Issues relating to the forces may only enter civilian awareness by way of media coverage of wars and world events, which can be a source of frustration and tension. “Even Armed Forces Day isn’t always talked about in schools”.
Civilian friends may also misunderstand the challenges of forces life:
This can make it difficult to celebrate the amazing parts of being from a forces family like the access to unique opportunities. Some young people tell us that they love moving and being able to start again, meet new people and reshape themselves.
Some young people highlight confidence in creating and maintaining relationships, as well as forms of resilience or adaptability to new situations. “I can deal quite well with change”.
Others discuss ‘local’ as being Europe because they have travelled and moved so much and talk about being “really grateful for the opportunities like living in hot and sunny places but wish I could still see childhood friends”.
Some people have never moved, and some people have moved lots – “someone said they’ve lived in their house their whole life and I was like really? I’ve never had that”.
From our work with Armed Forces young people, there are several key themes which occur again and again:
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