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My serving parent or loved one is away

Stage Three – My serving parent or loved one is away

Now your serving parent or loved one is away you might be experiencing a range of emotions.

It’s possible that you may be experiencing a sense of shock, or you may not feel anything at all (also known as numbness). You may feel overwhelmed by what’s happening at home, or a sense of confusion.

You might be struggling to concentrate or finding it hard to focus. You may be sleeping less or more and noticing differences in your appetite. You may feel a bit uncertain about what is going to happen next.

Extra responsibilities at home such as caring for family members and younger siblings could leave you feeling a bit tired and run down.

You might enjoy the extra responsibility, but you could also feel frustration and anger from them. It’s important to take care of yourself at this stage.

Try to maintain healthy habits by eating a balanced diet and staying active. Sleep is also really important at this stage.

Have a look at some of our health and wellbeing resources below:

Relaxation Mindful Walks

Getting a good night’s sleep is one of the most important things we can do at this stage. 

Sleep keeps us healthy; helps us to grow, helps us feel happier, and provides energy to do things we enjoy.

If you are someone who finds it difficult to get to sleep, or to stay asleep during the night, then you might feel tired. You might find it difficult to concentrae, and maybe even feel like you are in a bad mood because of how tired you fell.

Find out more from our colleague, Gillian.

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We have lots of useful resources co-produced with young people just like you.

Scroll through our resources below.

 

Sleep is something we can all struggle with from time-to-time.

If your mind is noisy with lots of thoughts, you might want to try bubble breathing to help you sleep faster, by blowing those thoughts away.

First, try to lie down comfortably on your back or your side.

Take notice of how your body feels; Close your eyes and imagine bubbles of thought floating in your mind.

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Getting a good night’s sleep is one of the most important things we can do to look after our health and wellbeing.

Good sleep can also increase our energy, focus, and happiness.

Creating a sleep routine can help set up a good night’s sleep because it helps our mind to wind down for sleep.

Firstly, let’s think about what bedtime looks like now – What is your current bedtime routine?

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